There are two important elements when coaching learners, readers, writers, educators, peers, and just about anyone.
Rule #1 - Name a positive and deliver a genuine compliment.
Everyone is doing something right. Name it for them. People can be very hard on themselves, especially if they are a perfectionist. Always name something they are doing well. You will be surprised at how much that compliment is appreciated.
Rule #2 - Give them one piece of advice on the "Next Doable Step."
Spend some time thinking about the one thing they can implement that is a logical next step or a challenge they are ready to tackle. You get incredible growth from incremental steps, taken consistently over a period of time. You might offer an example, strategy or exemplar to give a clear picture.
That's it. The secret recipe.
Genuine Compliment + Coaching for Next Doable Step = Growth & Improvement
Give it a try and drop us a line to share your stories!
Happy Coaching,
Kristy